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The Ram's Head Inn

4.4 ★★★★☆ 239 Google reviews · Beachfront wedding venue in Shelter Island Heights, New York · 0.2 mi to the sand

Private beach On-site lodging

Unassuming rooms in a historic island inn with an elegant restaurant, a bar & a private beach.

Plan your tour

  • Setting beachfront venue, 0.2 mi to the sand — verified by its distance to a real shoreline
  • Private beach a private stretch of sand comes up here — no public permit, no onlookers wandering through your vows
  • Lodging on-site rooms come up in reviews and the venue's own info — a built-in room block for a destination beach wedding; ask what's included
  • Phone +1 631-749-0811
  • Website theramsheadinn.com — most venues book tours right on their site

At a glance

108 S Ram Island Dr, Shelter Island Heights, NY 11965

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On the property

What couples name in their reviews of The Ram's Head Inn and what the venue states on its own site — the fastest way to tell what's actually here before you drive out.

🏖️ Private Beach

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🛏️ On-Site Lodging 2 mentions

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What couples highlight

The things reviewers bring up again and again across 239 Google reviews — in their own words, and only about the wedding and the setting.

🏝️ breathtaking beach setting 11 mentions

“On our most recent trip, we had a beautiful summer evening dinner overlooking the water with the most delicious food and then went for a scenic walk by the beach (only a few steps away)!”

🤝 staff who go above & beyond 2 mentions

From the reviews

This was our 3rd weekend stay since they completed renovations last fall, and I’m happy to say that everything was wonderful. We’ve been coming in the “off season” to just get away from the craziness of the city, and between the beauty of the location and charm of the Inn, these have been incredibly restorative…

★★★★★ — Steven, Feb 2023

We had a beautiful day at The Ram's Head Inn. We were there for Winterfest and it was great! They had a ton of activities for kids: cookie decorating, a hot chocolate station, s'mores, bird feeder making, sheep to feed, bocci, hammocks to chill in, tetherball, a letter- to- Santa writing station, then a tree lighting…

★★★★★ — Penelope, Nov 2025

Beautiful property on the water on Shelter Island. Rooms are small but they’re very clean and updated. The Manager Nick & the team were very attentive and helpful. Would happily come back and stay again

★★★★★ — Nick, Sep 2025

We’ve stayed here on multiple occasions for a trip to the Hamptons and always have a great experience. The staff is incredibly attentive and accommodating. The rooms are very clean and stocked well with water, towels and extra blankets.

★★★★★ — Emily, Jun 2026

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Getting married at The Ram's Head Inn

Two things make the tour worth the drive. First, see the ceremony spot at the exact time of day you'd say your vows — a west-facing beach glows at sunset but bakes at noon, and you'll want to feel the wind, watch where the sun sits, and walk the path your guests take across the sand. Second, bring your real questions: the weather backup (where does the ceremony move if it rains or the wind kicks up?), who pulls the beach permit, the sound-ordinance curfew, the catering and bar policy, and exactly what's included — chairs, setup, and teardown on sand are where quotes quietly diverge. Peak beach dates book 12–18 months out, so if the tour feels right, ask what's open in your season before you leave.

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Listing verified July 2026 from public business records and couples' reviews. Something out of date? Report a correction. Own this venue? Claim your listing — it's free.